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Thomas James McDaid
04/01/1942 — 09/28/2010
From Richland, WA, US | Born in Pendleton, OR
Thomas James McDaid
Thomas James McDaid
On September 28, 2010 we unexpectedly lost our Dad, Grandpa, Brother, Uncle, and Friend after a brief illness.
Born on April Fool's Day, 1942, in Pendleton, OR to Mildred and William McDaid, Dad was the eighth child in a family of 16 kids. He attended Catholic schools while growing up in Boise, ID., and soon after, enlisted in the Army's 82nd Airborne Division, Fort Bragg, NC, where he later served in the Vietnam War.
With his first marriage to Carol, he became a Father of two girls, Laurie and RuthAnn. Upon His second marriage to Sue in 1968, he gained 4 step children, Mike, Doug, Joe and Laura and together Tom and Sue created two more girls, Katie and Tommi Sue. He was proud to be called Dad and later Grandpa by many "stray kids" we encountered throughout our childhoods!
We enjoyed many special times throughout our lives, times continued as our own children grew. His special relationship with another- was felt by each member of our family, whether Brother, Sister, Niece, Nephew, child or grandchild, and every person that could call him a friend. He was a reliable, honest, and talented man. A true Jack -of-all trades, as well as a prankster, magician and comedian. All the kids knew that he was good friends with the Easter Bunny, Santa Claus and more than a few leprechauns. Fun times!!
He loved Peterbilts which he drove for many years, his Irish heritage, which included his Irish tea, and chocolates that he was never without for the kids. He would rather read than watch TV, He SHOULD have appeared on jeopardy -and won, and he never missed the news. He could run faster than any of us, spoke "Irish" to mostly those- who didn't speak it, and was rarely without his long, mostly red beard throughout our entire lives.
Since he moved to Tri-Cities, he could always be seen walking many miles all over town and riding the bus for his daily trip to the post office and library, never without his backpack and often with a grandkid or two in tow. We would like to say a special thank you to the drivers of the Ben Franklin Transit for all of their caring support and tolerance of Grandpa Tom over the years. He was glad to know you and often spoke of you by name.
Having always been a provider, supporter, teacher, and protector- we will miss the solid, steady and unique aspect of life he offered, as well as true unconditional love, to all who knew him and were loved by him.
He was preceded in death by his Parents, a sister Helen, three brothers: Jack, Joe and Kevin, his wife, Sue, for whom he grieved for 14 years, his Grandson Riley, and his best friend Leroy Buxton.
He is survived by all of his children, 13 of his siblings, and "a whole sackful of rugrats," including one brand new Grandbaby, whom he called Emma 2.
Be in peace as you continue on, Dad. We will see you again one day. And at night, we will watch for you and Grandma, as you fly to dance on the moon! We love you six hundred and twenty nine trillion billion seventeen hundred million sixty eight thousand forty three hundred and five. And then some.
Family and Friends are invited to and will gather for a celebration of his life, to share and support, to laugh and cry, to create another memory, and most importantly- to never forget. Please join us at 2:00 pm on Saturday Oct.16th, 2010 at Pasco Moose Lodge Family Center, 2617 W. Sylvester Pasco, WA.
Oh, Kids, my heart is so broken for you. But remember he is now enjoying time with mom and Riley. Stay strong and enjoy each other. Take care of Mom and Dad’s babies. You both know they don’t belong to you little ones are born for the Grand parents. You are only there to take care of them. Always let me know if either of you need older advise or anything else. I am here always for you, My Babies. Love you guys always, Mom
Tommi,Katie. I am so sorry for your loss. It is one of the hardest things in life to say goodbye to your father for the last time. He will always be with you in the things you say and do, the way you speak, and the person you are.
I am sorry for you loss. Tom dearly loved all his kids and grandkids. I drive for Ben Franklin Transit, and met Tom and Lerory when my husband and I had an excavating business before I started driving for BFT. Tom and Leroy worked for us many times. One couldn’t ask for more reliable and honest men. I truly enjoyed talking to Tom and driving him to the “medicine store”. He will be missed. I will not be able to make to the services on Saturday, so accept my sympathy and condolences.
Love you Grandcracker.
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Oh Tom, I can remeber countless nights spent at the house on K watching tv or reading in the living room with Tommi, you and Sue. I remember you always giving me and Tommi candy bars and there was never a shortage of apples! I remember coming home the first time I visited your house and telling my aunt my new best friend’s dad was a leprechaun and her mom was a gypsy! I miss you, always will.
What a wonderful moving tribute.
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