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Norman Rodney Miller
05/20/1927 — 09/16/2012
From Richland, WA | Born in Winfield, Kansas
Norman Rodney Miller
Norm Miller passed away peacefully on September 16, 2012 surrounded by his family. Norm lived a full life with devotion to family, kindness to everyone, professional success and work to make our community and world a better place to live.
Norm was born in Winfield, Kansas on May 20, 1927 to Archibald and Jessie Miller, the youngest of seven children. Norm enlisted in the Navy shortly after graduating from high school and always joked that Germany surrendered the day he enlisted and Japan the day he finished boot camp. Norm attended the University of Kansas with the help of a Summerfield scholarship, a merit scholarship awarded by the University to outstanding high school students. Norm graduated at the top of his class with a degree in chemical engineering and was recruited by General Electric at graduation. His first assignment was in Chicago where he reconnected with Shirley Shriver a KU alum who was getting her Masters at Northwestern University. A whirlwind romance followed and they married on September 2, 1951.
Norm and Shirley moved to Richland, Washington where he worked as a chemical engineer at Hanford for GE, with Shirley thinking they would stay in this dusty town for just a few years. But Shirley ended up loving the area as much as Norm and they started a family here, having Andy and then Jennifer while living in a prefab on Snow Street and then added Stanley to the family after buying a house on Cottonwood Street. Norm was a great dad, taking his three children on hikes behind the bypass, day trips to every dam in the area, being "Big Buffalo" in Indian Guides, going to countless swim meets but also helping with homework, teaching a strong work ethic and instilling a strong sense of social responsibility. Later the family moved to Ferry Road where Norm began his life-long love of walks along the Columbia River.
Norm took pride in what he achieved in his professional life. His analytical rigor, attention to detail, and talent for just knowing the right path to take led to a series of promotions at Hanford, including being named Vice President of Technical Affairs for United Nuclear Corporation where he was also in charge of reactor safety. Norm's dedication to Hanford continued well after his retirement Norm wanted everyone to understand the mission, science and engineering of Hanford, in clear but accurate terms. This lead to a second career as a B reactor tour guide and his work to establish a museum there. When U.S. Senator Maria Cantwell first toured B reactor, she did it on the condition that Norm would be the tour guide.
Norm was a proud American whose work for our community and country included social justice and political reform. His children still remember singing "We Shall Overcome" during marches against racial discrimination, rallies supporting farm workers, and doorbelling for progressive candidates. Norm was Chair of the Bobby Kennedy for President Committee which led to successful efforts to reform the local Democratic party, including his election as chair of the Benton County Democrats. Dad continued his involvement, being elected as a delegate to the 1992 Democratic National Convention only 16 years after Shirley was delegate to the 1976 convention. Norm always evolved ahead of his times, and was at the forefront to eliminating sexual orientation as a basis for discrimination. One of his lasting legacies is his decades-long work for the National Alliance for the Mentally Ill, challenging our local community to better address the needs of the mentally ill. Other interests included climate change mitigation and restoring native plants in our region.
One cannot list all of Norm's community activities but they include President of the Richland YMCA, Chair of the Columbia Basin College Board of Trustees, President of the Mid Columbia Mental Health Board, Board member of B Reactor Museum Association, President of NAMI Tri Cities and member of the NAMI Washington State Board.
Norm had double heart bypass surgery in 1981, and he tackled recovery in true engineer fashion, charting weight loss and power walking times to monitor progress on his lifestyle change. His love of walking along his Columbia River grew to include taking his grandchildren to summit Badger and numerous other mountains, entering local 5km races and lobbying race directors for a separate 80 and over category. He was proud of those blue ribbons!
Norm's priority of family grew to include his five grandchildren. They had so much fun with him, from sledding and hiking to 4 way chess and hearts. They all knew he was always their biggest champion but they never heard a harsh word from him to a referee or opponent. As they grew, he taught them to never accept the status quo, to think critically about the math formulas they were taught to memorize in class and to challenge health inequalities, economic injustice, and the responsibilities of government. They learned honesty first hand when Grandpa deducted social security from their wages doing yard work.
Norm is survived by his wife Shirley, his children Andy, Jennifer and her husband Vic Paci, and Stanley Jacob, grandchildren Elizabeth Paci and her husband Dave Rand, Dash Miller, James Paci, Madison Storm and Sebastain Miller, sister Betty Jean Maurer and numerous loving nieces and nephews. He was preceded in death by his parents Archibald and Jessie Miller and siblings Ray Miller, Mac Miller, Mary Ruth Hackney, Stanley Miller and Joan McCool.
There will be celebration of Norm's life on Friday October 12th at 2:00pm at Einan's Event Center. In lieu of flowers, the family is encouraging contributions to NAMI Tri Cities, PO Box 1135 Richland, WA or Tri Cities Food Bank
Norman was a fine person and a resource for the Hanford Project and the Tri Cities. He was also a long time friend and we shall miss him. Daryl and Pat Jonson
Dear Miller family – My heart aches for your loss and I can’t imagine a world without Norm, his smile and his goodness. It feels like another piece of my family has gone, but I will always cherish that he was part of it all these years and will love him for what he gave to each of us, but especially Dick particularly during his last yearsand Nyla.
Dear Miller Family, Norm will be greatly missed and we are so sorry for your loss. Norm was an amazing advocate for mental health and a true leader. He was such a kind man and a true friend. Praying for all of you as you grieve the loss of your loved one. Sincerely, The Ward FamilySincerely,
Norm was my supervisor at the N-Reactor for a number of years. I was young then and he taught me everything that college did not about being an engineer and a professional man. I have always remembered him with affecton and admiration. He was a true gentleman and a good friend. Norm was also one of the most intelligent people I have ever had the opportunity to know. God rest his sole!
The value of Norm’s involvement, encouragement, and parenting is evident through his family.
We are saddened that he has moved on, but the power of his positive influence and example will continue to benefit his family, his community, his state, and his nation.
Ed and I send our thoughts and love to your family during this difficult time. After reading his obituary, I have a greater understanding of Andy’s passions and character.
Dear Shirley and children,
We are deeply saddened to learn of Norms’ death. What a good man! Herb has fond memories of working with him on mental health issues, and to me he was Mr. D. Always kind, always helpful and effective–we shall all miss him. We send our condolences at this tough time.
Alma
When I arrived in the Tri-Cities in 1989 for a position with Westinghouse Norm took me to dinner and provided my first introduction to the challenges at the site. During my subsequent 5 1/2 years I had the good fortune to work closely with Norm. He was among the brightest and most likeable individuals I have ever met. His historical knowledge of the site was unparalleled; his integrity was unquestioned; his willingness to take on the most difficult challenges was invaluable.
After retirement, Norm, Quincey Baird and I lunched monthly and shared memories of work and bragged about our families. We also provided insights on current and political affairs. Norm’s views were always thoughtful and never contentious, though we often disagreed.
Norm was a wonderful friend and associate. Pat and I will miss him. We will be out of the country for the memorial service but our thoughts and prayers will be with you.
Dear Miller Family,
Charming, funny, compassionate and inspiring are just a few of the words I’d use to describe Norm. I feel priviledged to have known him and to be inspired by him. In 2003, after inviting me to speak on a panel at a NAMI mtg, he wrote the most inspiring letter, one I still have today. In it he stated “The human spirit, given some support, is inherently strong beyond imagining. And, what we who are advocating are trying to do is assure that as many as possible who are struggling get enough help and support so that their personal grit and determination can kick in and carry them to recovery.” Norm believed and lived this… Thanks for sharing yourself and inspiration with so many!
Cindy Adams; GCBH Consumer Advocate
I offer my deepest sympathy for your loss.
Norm and Shirley were faithful supporters of my late husband, Bill Grant; and even though they were not residents of the 16th District, they always attended political campaign events to show their support for Bill’s candidacy. Norm’s big smile and hearty handshake were always welcomed and appreciated.
Our condolences to Shirley and the Miller family. We regret that we missed the celebration of Norm’s life on October 12, but Dallas’s participation in his sister’s funeral in St. Louis on October 11, prevented us from attending. Norm will always be remembered for his many years of dedicated and demonstrated commitment to civil rights and social justice. We were personally touched and will always remember his attendance and support at our recent civil rights trial even when his health was failing. His commitment to uplifting the human spirit and to improving the social condition of the underprivileged are rare and very inspirational. Norm will be missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with the family.
Dallas and Lozie Barnes
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