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Paul L. Tompkins
01/24/1953 — 02/28/2025
From Richland, WA | Born in Ellensburg, WA
Memorial Service
530 W. Bonneville Street
Pasco, WA
Reception
530 W. Bonneville Street
Pasco, WA
Paul L. Tompkins
With great sadness we announce the passing of our beloved Paul. He fought prostate cancer bravely and even took part in a new phase 1 trial developed through UW/Fred Hutch in hope of helping his friends and others battling the disease.
Paul was born in Ellensburg WA on January 24, 1953, to Leslie E and Jeanette Luella Johnson Tompkins. He died February 28, 2025, surrounded by his loving family. He was 72.
Paul spent his very early years living in railroad substation camps with his mother, father and younger brother Joel until they moved to Richland when his father started working at Hanford. Paul was active in Boy Scouts achieving the rank of Life and the Pro Deo et Patria award. During a short move to Bellingham WA his freshman year, Paul was on the HS swim team and in Sea Scouts. The family returned to Tri-Cities where he attended Pasco HS graduating with honors, Class of 1971.
While attending Columbia Basin College, Paul worked on the school newspaper, The Hawkeye. He went on to WSU in Pullman WA and received bachelor’s degrees in English and Asian Studies graduating with honors. He was awarded Phi Beta Kappa.
Paul worked at Energy Northwest for 32 years as a Principle Specialist working in nondestructive testing and reactor vessel internals inspections. He was nationally recognized for his expertise.
In 1994, Paul fell in love with Phyllis McDonald and was blessed to have her two children, LeeAnn and Tim, come into his life. He shared his passion for literature with Tim which helped lead to his future career as an author and shared his thirst for adventure with LeeAnn.
When Phyllis’ sarcoma cancer took hold, Paul retired early so they could check off her bucket list. They traveled to 10 countries before she passed. They were together 22 years.
A year later, Paul found love again when he was introduced to Janeen Reberger by mutual dear friends. They didn’t waste any precious time since they both knew how fragile life was with Paul losing Phyllis and Janeen losing Dan Reberger in 2008. They resumed traveling the world and living life to the fullest.
Paul’s family grew again with the addition of Janeen’s children, Lynn, Kevin and daughter-in-law Sarah. He especially enjoyed being a grandpa. He encouraged Logan to get into Boy Scouts, supporting him in activities as his health permitted. He played guitar while Collins danced, Djembe drums with Sawyer and Kellen and Paul never missed a tea party.
As an active member of Pasco First Lutheran Church, Paul served on the board and as call chair for installation of a new pastor. He started and ran the church book club for six years. He played guitar often during worship.
Paul was an audiophile, vinyl collector and always willing to help anyone set up or tweak their system. He appreciated fine wine and dining. He was a scuba diver, skier, PCT hiker, musician, and a loyal friend. His intelligence, kindness and laughter will be greatly missed. We are so fortunate to have had him in our lives and will always hold Big Paulie close to our hearts.
He is preceded in death by Phyllis, his parents and twin sister Julie.
He is survived by Janeen of Richland, Tim McDonald and Angela Day Evans of Lynnwood WA, LeeAnn and Lawrence Lechelt of Colquille OR, Lynn Reberger (Logan), Kevin Reberger and Sarah Cusick-Reberger (Sawyer, Collins, Kellen) of Richland WA and Joel and Nicki Tompkins (Ian and Lianne) of Meridian ID.
Service will be at Pasco First Lutheran Church located at 530 West Bonneville Street Pasco WA.
In lieu of flowers, please make memorial contributions to Tri-Cities Chaplaincy at 1480 Fowler Street Richland WA 99352. Einan’s is in charge of arrangements with Interment at Sunset Gardens, Richland WA.
Very nice summary of ‘ a good man and a life well lived’. He and I talked music, vinyl and wine. And an occasional medical conversation in his later years. Our football group will miss his observations and sharp wit. Janeen, hopefully you will
continue to join us. Love-Deb and Dave
He was an dear old friend. We shared many great memories. He will be dearly missed.
Paul was a friend and a fellow audiophile. He’d stop in at my parents antique shop in the Uptown and say hello often. I always enjoyed our conversations about various stereo equipment pieces, guitar playing, the records we had been listening to and hearing about is world travels. He was such a genuinely nice person and very caring about his family and friends. He will be greatly missed by all.
I met Paul through my affiliation with Pasco First Lutheran Church. It started with music, and following that it was simply the comfort and joy of talking with and being around him. He will be missed and remembered fondly. Rest in peace, Paul.
I had the immeasurable pleasure of working with Paul and we had many a discussion on literature, historical and fiction. His subtle wry humor was appreciated and the squint eye he would give you on the punchline of the joke is memorable. He insisted on calling my wife “Shelley” which became a bit of an ongoing laugh throughout the years. Our lives are always improved by the people placed in them and in the timeline of my life and the intersecting path with Paul’s a lasting impression was made.
“May the souls of the faithful departed in the mercy of God rest in peace.”
Paul was a good friend. We had so much in common. He will be missed. Although we were close for only a few years, his vitality and honesty are to be cherished. I will miss his laugh and sense of humor. He leaves a solid legacy of love and kindness. Till we meet again………..God’s Speed PAUL.
Paul was great person and I considered him a friend. I met him and Phyllis at church. After church refreshments was a great time to visit enjoy some food and of course coffee. Everyone par-taking in this ritual had stories to tell. It was all good. He loved books and traveling and music. We will miss him at church as will his second family miss him too.
RIP Paul and keep those angels singing.
Diane Medick
Paul had such a great heart, and mind. Always full of purpose and joy. I only saw him angry when he talked about the injustice and stupidity in the world that hurts the most vulnerable. He gave so much and is gone too soon.
Joel, I’m sorry for your loss. I unexpectedly ran into Paul a few years ago at a dinner party. We reminisced about our years on Marshall street, amazingly, even after 50 years our memories matched. Those were some really fun years for me and you and Paul were a big part of that. RIP Paul.
Winston McCulley
Paul was a dear friend. So many church book clubs and movie nights shared. He was a great facilitator, so much knowledge. He knew his wines and I will never forget one movie night at Dennis & My house we brought out some wine that had been in the pantry for years, we had no idea it aged out. Paul quickly but politely said we should not share that. 😂 RIP Paul! You truly were so special!🙏❤️
The first time I remember meeting Paul was at Christmas time of 1967. My wife Marlyce (Janette’s sister) and our three children took a train for a family visit. Young Paul and Joel escorted me late at night onto the sound during low tide. It was pitch dark and scary.
Paul was a unique and interesting person. He was a master of the English language, a profound life long student of many pursuits, and talented with good humor, just to mention a few things.
Paul was a wonderful person…we will miss him so much!
We were so lucky to have Paul in our lives. The kids adored their time with him. They looked at him as a grandfather figure, though he was never “grandpa.”Instead, he was “Paul Paul” and “pumpkin Paul.”
We will miss the music he filled the house with, the food he made, especially his famous pancakes, his laugh, and so much more. You were dear to us Paul Paul.
Paul was a dear friend and mentor. He helped me to get through my NDE certifications. I’ll never forget , Paul would always buy Loto tickets then lay them on his shelf and check them on the day they would draw. One day I bought a ticket after the drawing with the winning numbers. I slipped it into his stack hoping he wouldn’t look at the date. Worked great, actually thought he’d won. But then wouldn’t talk to me for a long time.
He will be dearly missed.
R.I.P. Paul
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